Simple Silence, Part III of III
By Monette Benoit, All Rights Reserved.
Simple Silent, Part I was posted 12/8/09, www.monettebenoit.com and www.CRRbooks.com
Part II was posted 12/19/09.
Simple Silence, Part III of III:
Again, the topic of sound – or lack thereof – is introduced.
In 1993, when I opened my CART “headquarters” within a sign interpreter’s business, I feng shui-ed my office see if it would generate more revenue.
Hearing and deaf trolled through and parked in chairs, sharing, “It feels peaceful.”
Maybe having been surrounded by music and sound as a child and adult created an opportunity for my choice.
My mother, a special education elementary instructor (certified in two states) and music teacher with an associate’s degree in opera, plays approximately seven instruments. She always played an instrument or brought one home to practice for class lessons.
Her mother, my grandmother, was a piano prodigy who formed her own orchestra in Corpus Christi, Texas. Each musician had to play a minimum of four instruments.
I grew up with a lot of sound. The day that astronauts landed on the moon, my family was traveling and camping in a pop-up tent trailer. We were in El Paso, Texas. My memory is brutally hot – no air conditioning or TV.
That day, my youngest brother, Kevin Drue, bought a (cheap) guitar. In that heat (with no trees in sight), Kevin sat on a barbecue table. I listened as he taught himself to play guitar in that unbelievable heat.
Several hours later Kevin was pretty darn good. Additional information for Kevin may be found: www.captainkevindonnelly.com
And I married a man who plays the guitar – a lot.
The younger generation? Yes, music (and video games) are played – a lot.
Often court reporters have had music lessons prior to entering our profession. This talent can be a plus for students.
Walking into stores now, typically music is now blaring. Studies reveal that people shop longer (with the air conditioning cranked up – even in cooler weather) when music is heard.
While reading e-mails today as I finished this article on sound, I read that several sign interpreting friends were commenting about a new, just-released CD they are purchasing.
One deaf friend wrote, “What is it? Country? Rock? ‘Sounds’ good! Ha-ha.”
Silence, in my opinion, is powerful. This is a conversation I have had with many friends who cannot hear sounds. (Watching – actually staring at – people who “sign” is considered to be eavesdropping as shared with me by the deaf community.) They are my teachers on the subject of sound.
Court reporters, captioners, students and instructors are accustomed to listening to rapid-fire, back-to-back words in talk-over conversations.
Often we think, “When are ‘they’ going to inhale? How long can this pace continue?”
We know people are talking faster in depositions, court, and on TV. The subject has been documented.
As we round the corner for holidays, adding tasks to busy schedules, I want to remind you to listen to simple silence.
The seed I am planting here – silence – as gifted by my deaf friends is “hearing the sound of sound.” I seek to resonate this moment within you. This is my simple silent wish.
Part I and Part II are posted www.monettebenoit.com and www.CRRbooks.com
Monette Benoit may be reached at: Tutoring@CRRbooks.com
Monette Benoit, B. B.A., CCR, CRI, CPE
Realtime Court Reporter, Instructor, Consultant, Columnist
Coach, Tutor and Multiple Title Author of Books & Test Prep for the
& Captioning Industry
About the Author:
Monette Benoit, B.B.A., CCR, CRI, CPE, is a JCR Contributing Editor for the National Court Reporters Association, NCRA.
She is the author of multiple books and Test Prep for the Court Reporting & Captioning Industry to include the national and state RPR, RMR, RDR, CSR ‘Written Knowledge Exam’ Textbook, Workbook, Companion Study Guide, ‘The CRRT WKT’ CD Software Program, Advanced SAT, LSAT, GRE, Real-Time Vocabulary Workbook and ‘CATapult’ Your Dictionary CD Software Program series.
Books, CDs, private tutoring, mentoring services and articles may be referenced www.crrbooks.com/
Monette is an experienced consultant, instructor, real-time court reporter, tutor, life coach, CART provider, columnist. She teaches, tutors and coaches home-study students, college students, court reporters and professionals.
Monette speaks to groups at state, national and international conventions about motivation, technology, expanding skills and Deaf, Oral Deaf, Hard of Hearing.
Monette Benoit, B.B.A., Certified Court Reporter, Certified Reporting Instructor, Certified Program Evaluator, Paralegal, may be reached at: http://www.crrbooks.com/ http://www.catapultdix.com/ and All American RealTime/Captioning Services, Inc.: http://www.artcs.com/